In Rhoda’s 1962 Diary, my mother talks about her frustrations with my father arriving home late.
February 21
“Alex not home yet? 12 p.m.”
This ‘late-home-coming’ (AWOL) of my father is a topic that crops up repeatedly in the Diary – perhaps sometimes connected to alcohol abuse?
February 22
“Alex arrived home early hours 6. 45. a.m. I could have choked him, as I had sat up till after 1 a.m. last night. He didn’t bring our Humber Hawk. Gavin was disappointed, as well as all the rest, especially Sandy, as he has a £20 share in it.”
I don’t think the Humber Hawk was very expensive, as it was six or seven years old, and I think my father got it at wholesale price. The fact that Sandy had a £20 share in it seems to suggest that the family finances were under pressure, perhaps one of the reasons my father was on the lookout for a higher paid job.
In retrospect, it might have been a better solution if my mother had found a part-time job. Our neighbour Mrs Babcock had a job, so they were probably better off than us. Mr. Babcock was a fireman, and they only had two sons, Roger and Billy. At one point, they sold their old Ford 8 and bought a Bedford Dormobile, which they could use for holidays.
The Babcock’s Cars

